| Tips 
            for handling know-it-all visitors updated 
            Apr 2020
 A visitor can be 
            a dream or a nightmare. It's all up to YOU!
 
 More about some typical visitor behaviour that guides may find difficult to handle. Be aware, that half of the 
            problem is YOU.
 
 Suddenly, one of the visitors turns out to be an aggressive know-it-all. 
            "What the scientific name of this?" "How come you don't know what 
            it is?" "I know more about this than you do"
 
 Or the visitor continuously interrupts or contradicts what you say. 
            Or starts talking about something else and starts becoming the guide.
 
 How to find out if there is a know-it-all 
            in your group?
 
 During the introduction, find out more about them. Have they come 
            to the seashores before? Are any of them biologists, scientists, science 
            students? Is there something they are particularly interested in?
 
 Good things about know-it-alls
 
 They are eager to know and to interact with you. Although they may 
            disagree you, they do listen. Often, we may feel intimidated by people 
            who seem to know more than us, but actually, these people may just 
            be very interested and not know that they are being intimidating.
 
 They are eager to share. Encourage them to share.
 
 Ask questions. When you get to a new thing, ask them first what they 
            know about it. Then add on what you know.
 
 Not so good things about know-it-alls
 
 Disruptive and makes you feel confused and depressed.
 
              You can try 
                to ignore the visitor and just move on.If it really 
                gets you down, shorten the trip so that the situation in minimised. 
                There is no reason for you to have a bad time because of a badly 
                behaved visitor. If he contradicts you, just firmly state what 
                you think is correct and move on. If the other members of the 
                team choose to believe him instead of you, there is really not 
                much you can do without turning the situation ugly, so let it 
                go.  Don't be a bad 
            guide. Be a good guide instead. |